My Blog Reflection
I have never been lost, but I will admit to being confused for several weeks.
Daniel Boone
August 22, 2025:
Last evening Kelly and I were sitting on the deck (now that it has cooled down a little) enjoying an adult beverage, when my chair seat ripped. I have to admit it took some effort to get out of the hole. LOL

On our deck we have two of these very well-made chairs that we use all of the time. They were part of the contents of Ron's condo in Florida which we bought from his estate. They have served us well but they are now about 15 years old. Everything else about the chairs is in wonderful shape. I replaced the springs a couple of summers ago. I got online to find out about replacing the fabric. The chair fabric is custom made to the exact size of each chair. Thus new material is not cheap. I watched a video and it doesn't look difficult to replace the material so I ordered a new one for each chair, along with all new plastic end caps to keep bugs and water out. All of the plastic caps are rotten and just break off when you pry on them. (Did I mention I hate plastic parts?) The replacement material should be here in two-three weeks. I'll report back on the installation.
August 26, 2025:
Once again I have to get blood drawn for the cancer institute study. Luckily, for a change, I can get it drawn in Perryville and I do not have to drive to St. Louis. Kelly also has to get blood drawn in Ste. Genevieve today.
After our blood draws we brought Homer to the house to fix a few items and get him prepared for a our next camping trip.
Homer Project:
The major Homer project was to replace the winterizing bypass kit for the water heater. All RVs have a winterizing kit installed the purpose of which is to allow you to avoid having to fill the entire water heater tank with RV antifreeze when you drain all the water to winterize the water system for the winter.
I never had any problem with the bypass kit in Homer until last fall. Homer's kit only had one valve on the cold water line. By closing it the antifreeze does not enter the tank through the cold water line. Last year when I winterized Homer I had to add multiple gallons of RV antifreeze. The reason was that the RV antifreeze was back flowing into the tank through the hot water line. It is not supposed to do that. My assumption was that somewhere in the system there is a check valve on the hot water line which is designed to keep the water (or in the case the antifreeze) from back flowing into the tank. This check valve obviously had malfunctioned.
The water heater, and all of the plumbing for it, is located in the bathroom on the floor behind a cabinet door about fourteen inches by twelve inches. Here is a picture of the door.
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As you can imagine, there is not a lot of room to work. To make the job easier I removed the cabinet door to get it totally out of the way.
Here is what the original bypass kit looked like. The arrow points to the one valve on the bottom inlet to the tank. I found no manual valve, nor check valve, on the top (hot water) line. This surprised me. The curled white hose is to bypass the water from going into the tank.
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The new bypass kit has a valve for the top (hot) water line and a valve for the bottom (cold) water line. In the picture the yellow arrows point to the black handle of each valve on the new kit. The clear, u-shaped garden hose is the bypass line.
The old valve was much better quality than the new ones. It was all metal no plastic. But being old it leaked a little when turned from one position to the other. So to the recycle bin it goes.
While the new valves have black plastic handles, surely they will outlast me. When each valve is closed the water will circle from the bottom cold water line to the hot water line through the bypass hose, thus keeping all antifreeze out of the hot water tank. Yippee!
I always cringe at working on 30 year old plumbing, particularly when working in very tight areas. Fortunately there were no leaks on my install. However, the plastic outside tank drain leaked. I pulled it out and put in a new plastic one using lots of Teflon tape around it. No leak there anymore either. These plastic plugs are so durable and trustworthy that they come in a package of FIVE.
Everything is dry as a bone in the water heater access area on the outside of Homer.
After all leaks were addressed I turned on the water heater to make sure it made hot water and there still were no leaks. I then hooked the electric up, closed the fridge, and turned it on to make sure it is good to go on electric for our trip.
August 30, 2025:
The last time I dumped the waste water holding tanks I noticed that the 1 1/2 inch gray water valve, when opened, leaked. I didn't explore the leak at the time but did today. The valve itself is an easy replacement. Four bolts hold the valve in a bracket that has a sewer pipe connection on each side. A rubber o-ring on each side of the valve case makes a tight seal. You simply take the four bolts out and the valve itself slides out.
In looking at this area I do not believe this valve has ever been replaced. I assumed the rubber seals had deteriorated and thus the leak. Before ordering a new one I put water in the tank, emptied it, and to my surprise, the valve was not leaking but rather the fitting on the valve mounting bracket. The leak was on the side of the bracket leading to the drain pipe. The other side of the valve mount connects directly to the gray water holding tank and is was covered up with foam insulation at the factory. Here is a picture. The yellow arrow points to the holding tank fitting that is covered with foam from the factory.
Properly repairing this leak will be a major project because the valve mount is glued in into the pipes. It will have to be cut out with care and the glue removed from the pipes before a new one can be installed.
Since there is no pressure in the pipe when the water is drained, I decided to attempt a quick repair by putting silicone around the leaking fitting. In the picture below the top arrow points to the valve assembly itself, which is held in the mounting bracket by four bolts. To the left of the valve is the clear silicone caulk I spread all away around the fitting in the hope that it will seal it. The bottom arrow points to the silicone caulk.
I don't know if this repair will hold but the silicone I purchased is for windows and doors so it is made for outdoor use. I have my fingers crossed.
August 31, 2025:
Today we went to Buchheit's General Store looking for a few items. I noticed this display as we entered - 55 gallon drums for sale for $27.99. I remember when they were gladly given away once emptied. When we moved to Perryville they were used by everyone to burn their trash. Times have changed.
September 2, 2025:
I got my next Radium 223 injection. I am not to be around other people for five days due to the radioactivity that could emanate to others from my system via body fluids. Since we could not attend the June nor August summer campouts with our RV club, we decided to schedule a couple of days of camping with my sister, Renee, and her husband, Jim, at their campground in Cuba, Missouri. We decided such a campout will be safe for all because we will be in separate campers, across the road from each other, all of our daily interaction will all be outside. We try to camp with them at least once per summer and this will be our first opportunity with the treatment schedule.
If the pool is open I will not get in it, nor will I use of the any public facilities at the campground. We are looking forward to it. It has been a rough summer. I have a full bottle of Canadian Whiskey to take along and I plan on putting a pretty good dent in it.
September 3, 2025:
We left Perryville at 8:00 a.m. and arrived at Meramec Valley Campground in Cuba, Missouri, at 10:30 a.m. Renee had to be at the gate with her card to let us in. I will digress here for a moment about that.
Here is a picture of the campground entrance. Originally there was an attendant at the gatehouse who let you in if you were a member or a paid guest. The attendant was eliminated years ago, I'm sure due to cost, and now there is a telephone at the gatehouse with a number to call so someone in the office can open the gate. This is a membership campground and so all members have a card to get in. Members could always have paying guests but a few years ago the campground was opened it to the public to generate more income.
In the past I have arrived at the gate and called the number and no one answered. In fact, I think only one time someone answered. The other times I had to call Renee and she would have to drive up and use her card to open the gate for us.
When you open a place to the general public this is terrible system. You pull up to the gate, off the highway, and are now sitting, in your rig, at the gate, with nowhere to go if no one answers the phone to open the gate. Your only option is to back out into the highway to get out. The road in the lower right is the lane to the storage area for campers. Here is a picture. There is no way any camper could back 90 degrees into this gravel road to turn around. There needs to be a better system for entry by non-members who don't have a card to open the gate.
Once Renee let us in the gate and we checked-in it didn't take long to set up Homer across from Renee and Jim's camper and settle in for three days of R n R.
You can see from this picture that virtually no one was there midweek after school has started. Nice and quiet.
The weather was perfect all three days. Wednesday Renee and Kelly were even able to get in the pool while Jim and I hung out.
Renee and Jim have owned a membership in Meramec Valley Campground for about twenty-five years. It was really a hopping place back in the day but, like many other places, membership has fallen off. Lower membership means lower income which makes general maintenance and improvements more difficult. They have remodeled the office and the laundry/shower house near our campsite.
The three pools and equipment have been upgraded and are all in excellent shape, as are the sitting areas.
The pool house, however, is a different story. While all new pool equipment has been installed, the building itself needs some major surgery. I hope that its remodel is in the budget because it is an eyesore on the major road through the park.
They have expanded and updated the playground near the pool. I think it is a work in progress.
The main road to and around the campground is asphalt and needs to be completely replaced. In many places it is now more gravel than asphalt. It does not give a good impression. I hope its replacement is in the budget soon.
Our campout was great in all respects. We had great meals and the weather was fabulous. The place was quiet and relaxing.
We can't have a campout without a nice fire. For some reason the ladies sat on one side and the guys sat on the other. LOL
We enjoyed the time together and the great weather but all good things come to an end. Upon leaving we decided to meet at the "Bourbon Cafe" in Bourbon, Missouri, for breakfast. The place is owned by Dan Gray and his wife. Dan went to St. Louise de Marillac Grade School with Renee and I and then became an anchor on a St. Louis news channel for several decades. Unfortunately he wasn't there when we stopped for breakfast. It would have been nice to meet up with him.
The "Bourbon Cafe" would be unique anywhere but in this town of only 1,500 residents it was outstanding. It is only open Thursday through Sunday from 8:00 a.m. until 2:00 p.m. Here is a picture of the inside. You go up to the counter and order and the food is brought out to you.
I have never before been serenaded during breakfast but this guy was quite a treat singing just across from our table.
The menu is not your typical breakfast or lunch fare. Kelly had "Avocado Toast", which was sourdough bread with salmon, avocado, etc. on top. I had the "Panini Breakfast", which had egg, bacon, cheese, etc. on it. Both were quite tasty and reasonably priced. This stop was a great way to end our time together. We agreed that we should spend more time together but you know how that goes. Even though we are all retired we seem to be busy much of the time.
Once home we had Homer unpacked in record time. Upon checking the mail I had a package which was the replacement material for the two chairs. I was surprised that it had arrived since their website said two to three weeks before delivery. I now have a weekend project.