MY BLOG REFLECTION
People do not decide their futures, they decide their habits and their habits decide their futures.
F. M. Alexander
December 19, 2024
Kelly ordered a new "Friendship Flag" for the front of the house. The old one was too large and was beginning to fray. We like this smaller size. I believe well over 50% of our park are Canadians and of course Kelly has her Canadian citizenship.
After putting up the flag I drove to Sherwin-Williams to buy two quarts of paint for the walls of the outside shed. The salesman informed me that two quarts would cost $72.00 and a gallon would cost $64.00. Guess what? I only needed two quarts but I now have a gallon. I came home and spay painted the rusty spots with primer so they would dry well before I paint. I learned that lesson from the roof coating last week. Since I will be having sinus surgery this afternoon I will not get to work on this project for about a week. No big deal.
On the way back home I stopped at Home Depot and bought an outlet to replace the one in the closet. Nothing would stay plugged into it. It was worn out or so I thought. When I took the cover off to check for power this is what I found.
I had never seen one like that. There were no screws holding it in so I pried it out and what I found was an "outlet safe".
I never knew such a thing existed. This one had to be pried out with a screwdriver. It isn't large enough to hold all of our precious "jewels", so I just reinstalled it. I learn something every day.
At 2:30 p.m. I arrived for my sinus surgery. It took about an hour and all went well. Here's a picture of me upon arriving back home.
I only took one OxyContin before the surgery and one Tylenol after. The pain was not bad at all, mostly a mild headache. Here I am sleeping off the headache with lots of water and tissues nearby.
For the next several days I have to keep my head elevated when sleeping and not use the CPAP. I decided the best way to make this happen was to sleep in the recliner. It worked. A good side effect was Kelly got a good night's sleep as well without my snoring.
December 20, 2024
Post surgery I feel fine. I have a runny nose and a slight headache. I'm not allowed to blow my nose for four days, which I must say is a little aggravating. Otherwise I have no complaints. I can definitely breathe better now that the passages are opened up.
The day before my surgery I saw on Facebook a family of metal yard ornament Egrets for sale. I couldn't pick them due to the surgery so the lady held them for me. We went today to pick them up. We immediately knew the house when we arrived. I never saw anything like it. She must have every yard ornament known to man. These pictures are just the front yard. The side yards and back yard are worse.
I placed the Egret family in the front flower bed using metal stakes I made out of coat hangers to hold them in place. I may rearrange them later. They will look better when the cord and timer for the Christmas lights are gone. The mulch is going to get removed and replaced with white gravel in the near future as well.
Upon installing the Egrets Kelly made me remove my plastic Flamingo that wobbles in the wind. I'll find a spot for him somewhere else. LOL
After the Chief's football game we had a drink while I grilled burgers. The burgers, along with a great salad, made for a nice supper out in the Florida Room. I wasn't cold but Kelly always is. Thus the hoodie. LOL
Since we bought this place Kelly has been on a mission to eliminate all of the pink and burgundy items throughout the house. She bought new covers for the throw pillows. No more pink and burgundy in the living room, master, and guest bedrooms. Happy wife, happy life.
After lunch I made a double batch of biscotti. I am still getting used to this electric oven. My first batch a few weeks ago was a disaster. This one turned out much better.
Later in the afternoon an ice-packed birthday cake arrived for Kelly - Quadruple Chocolate. It was such a hit last year the girls got her another this year. I'm insisting she wait until her birthday tomorrow to cut into it.
December 23, 2024
For her birthday Kelly wanted to go for a nice lunch then sit on on the beach at Fort DeSoto, which has just reopened since the hurricane. We had lunch at "Billy's Stone Crab Grill" nearby. It was fabulous. We started with margaritas. We were a little early for the "Early Bird Specials" but our waiter gave us those prices anyway. Very nice. He got a generous tip.
Kelly ordered prime rib and I ordered stone crab so we could try each. The stone crab was excellent, the prime rib was only average. Lesson learned, do not order beef at a seafood restaurant. LOL
We were seated next to the windows and had a wonderful view of the canal. This little guy sat outside our window enjoying the day the entire time we ate.
After lunch we headed to the East Beach at Fort DeSoto. It just recently opened after the hurricane damage was cleaned up. We had not been to the East beach before, we normally go to the North Beach, which is still closed. The weather was fabulous, the beach was great, and it was not crowded at all. Here are a couple of pictures.
You can barely see the Sunshine Bridge in the distance.
Kelly put her toes in the water but it was way to cold to wade in although a few other hardy souls nearby did it.
We stayed at the beach almost until closing time. Before we left we took the obligatory selfie.
Once home Kelly served us each a slice of the quadruple chocolate birthday cake. Oh my gosh, is it rich! Whew! A small piece is all that your body can handle without going into diabetic shock! It was a nice relaxing day.
December 24, 2024
Kelly hosted the ladies "Tuesday Morning Coffee Klatch". Coffee, tea, and tasty treats are always available. Different ladies host depending on the weather. Our Florida Room is heated and air-conditioned so it is great for cooler weather like today.
My project for the day was to paint the outside shed. These pictures are after I primed the rusted spots the day before.
After the coffee klatch I put a coat of paint on the shed. I picked out a gray to match the house. The brown trim and gable end will be painted white.
December 25, 2024
At 8:30 a.m. we went to a quiche breakfast at the clubhouse which was put on by the Women's Club. It was delicious and very nice of the ladies to do this on Christmas Day. Around noon Celina came over to spend the day. I watched the Chiefs football game while the women played cards and other games. We had a supper of Kelly's clam chowder. As usual it was delicious. About an hour after supper I suddenly got really sick - headache, throwing up, etc. We decided the only thing different that I had from the women was a big glass of Eggnog. We decided to throw the rest of it out in case that is what caused my illness. By bedtime I was fine.
December 26, 2024
First thing in the morning I put the first coat of white paint on the shed trim. When the second coat is on I'll post a picture. The shed looks much nicer now although no one sees it but our back neighbor. LOL. It will be protected from further rusting.
After that quick paint job I started the garbage disposal install for Kelly.
The biggest issue was getting electric under the sink to plug the disposal into and running a switch to control it. This switch was on the backsplash next to the sink. It controled the light over the sink. It was my only hope for finding electric.
Most switches just break the hot wire going to the light. There is normally no neutral wire in the box. Both a neutral and a hot are is necessary for alternating current to work. I lucked out. The light switch box had neutral wires in it powering the outlets on the back splash. I had power there to connect to and to add a disposal switch and an outlet under the sink for the disposal to plug into.
The next major issue was how to get the power from the backsplash area to the cabinet below the sink. The back splash is ceramic tile so I didn't want to disturb that in any way.
I emptied the base cabinet and measured over from the wall to where the switch box was above and marked it. The top of the cabinet was only about a foot below the switch box. My hope was to be able to fish a wire through that hole up to the outlet.
I purchased a hole saw set at Harbor Freight and cut the biggest hole I could in the cabinet and through the paneling behind. I needed a large hole so I could get my hand in the wall to find the new wire. I had measured and luckily only barely hit a stud on one side. Now it was time to fish a new wire.
I pushed a coat hanger wire down from the box. After a couple of tries feeling around I found the wire in the wall and pulled it out of the hole. I attached the Romex cable to my coat hanger wire and carefully pulled it up into the box.
Next I drilled a small hole in the cabinet wall and fished the wire into the adjoining cabinet below the sink. There I would install the new outlet for the disposal.
I used the plug I cut out with the hole saw to close the hole in the cabinet back up. I sealed it with caulk to keep air, bugs, and other critters out. My caulk job was quite sloppy because I was laying in the cabinet and looking up working overhead at arms length. Fortunately no one will ever see it. LOL
Once the wire was in the cabinet under the sink I mounted an outlet box for the disposal to plug into. This outlet will be controlled by a switch on the backsplash. It will only be hot when the switch is "ON".
Now was the time to make the necessary electrical connections in the light switch box for the sink light and disposal outlet to work.
The single pole switch for the sink light had three wires, which is very unusual. The two wires on the terminals broke the current to the light. The third wire was pushed into a friction connection spot on the switch. I didn't know what this third wire did. The wire was black, which meant it should be the power, but when I cut it off I couldn't get any power from it. I thought maybe it fed a nearby outlet but the outlets worked without it. I put a wire nut on it and pushed it back in the box.
Now I needed to install the new duplex switch. A duplex switch is two switches in a single switch box . It allows you to control two items separately from a single switch box. I needed one switch to turn on the overhead sink light and the other switch for the garbage disposal outlet. I soon learned that wiring this switch was confusing. The only directions were printed on the inside of the small carboard box it came in. I thought I understood how it worked but got on YouTube to verify what I was doing. I ended up having to switch the power, light switch wires, and outlet wires around three times to get both switches to work the way I wanted.
Here is the switch installed. The top switch controls the sink light and the bottom the garbage disposal. Mission accomplished. I had worked on this from 9:30 a.m. until 4:30 p.m. I was shot for the day.
Tomorrow would be disposal installation day. It appears I may have to do some major plumbing changes to get this done. Naturally.
December 27, 2024
First thing in the morning I put a second coat of white paint put on the shed trim. I'm satisfied with the results.
I then moved to installing the garbage disposal. We bought a slender model made by Glacier Bay with a six year warranty because the space was really limited between the disposal and the drain.
You can see how close the drain is where the disposal will hang. I can't believe that the water lines just hang loose under there and actually right in the way. The black hose is from the dish washer.
As I expected, I had to use my Dremel tool to cut the old drain out of the sink. Once it was out I could install the new metal drain but I needed some plumber's putty for that. A trip to Home Depot.
Once I got the metal drain installed in the sink I hung the disposal to see how the drain was going to work out. It worked out rather well. I had to cut off the elbow that went into the service line and then I had to make another trip to Home Depot to get a new extension piece. The old one had a pipe in it for the dish washer. The dish washer now connects to the garbage disposal. Here is a picture of the finished project with no leaks. It took about four hours, not bad. When we bought the disposal at Home Depot I told the guy this was Kelly's Christmas present. She immediately let him know that was not the case. He got a laugh out of that. I told him I NEVER buy her anything with a plug on it. The new disposal is really quiet.
Now it is time to shower and relax. I have nothing planned for the weekend. On Monday I go to the doctor for a surgery follow-up and for allergy testing. We bought tickets for a New Year's Eve Dance at the clubhouse. It should be fun. I don't have to worry about drinking and driving. LOL
After finishing the project I went to use the light in the kitchen seating area and it was dead. The only thing it could be was the extra wire in the box. I opened up the box, pulled out the wire and touched it to the hot wire and I had power. I had to make a pig tail to attach it to the switch. I had tried everything in the kitchen area but hadn't thought about the light and fan in the seating area. The mystery was solved.
Happy New Year to all!